I was in the Redwood National Forest Information Center in Crescent City, California recently. I wanted information on possible hikes in the local area. The Ranger recommended a short hike, accessed via a road he recommended traveling as well. I had asked for about 3 hours worth of hikes with a rating of easy to moderate.
He sort of apologized for the shortness of the hike and the ease of driving the road. He then justified – or at least that is how it felt to me – the drive. He said both the drive and the hike had some of the most amazing trees to look at.
Here’s the possibility for exploration – I actually needed him to justify the drive and explain the ease of the hike. In my mind I was thinking “How can it be worth it? What could I see in a 30 minute hike? Driving? That doesn’t seem very nature like.”
It all comes down to my underlying beliefs. There is one that comes up a lot of me and I suspect for many of you too – if it isn’t hard, if it doesn’t take effort, then it can’t be good enough, or it can’t be worth it. Let me say that another way – if I don’t work hard, if it doesn’t take me a lot of effort, then I’m not good enough, I’m not worth it, and whatever I’ve produced or done isn’t good enough.
Hmmm…who says it all has to be hard? As I explore my gifts and what I’m meant to do in this world, I keep coming up against this belief. Here’s the trick about your gifts – they are often the things you do with ease, things you don’t even know you are doing when you do them so readily and easily.
Here’s an example. I’m a good listener. I’ve always been a good listener. I didn’t know I was a good listener. My friends did. They tell me that’s why they always call me when they have something to work through, when they need someone to listen. But I didn’t spend 10 years doing various degrees at university learning how to listen. So how can listening be something of value? I haven’t worked hard to learn how to do it and I have ease around it.
What if accomplishment and value didn’t have to come from “hard”? What if living life, coming from an energy of ease was enough? Was magnificent?